As I walk around the city or jump on the trams, it feels more and more like “home”. Different, but also comfortable and familiar. Little things still interesting (like they call WiFi, “Wee Fee” due to their alphabet’s sounds), and yet not as much different feeling as the first time: it’s all about the people, our friends, and just living our lives in such an environment that we are not used to.
Friday night was dinner and Music Night at BJ’s. This was wonderful. We all brought something and just chatted and “grazed”. One of my favorite friends, Geoffrey, was there, and since it was the first time I’d seen him in 2 years, I was delighted that he was able to attend.
A yummy cold cucumber soup made by BJ, some dips/tapenade with bread and rice crackers (for the gluten free in the crowd), wonderful cheeses and Geoffrey’s delicious chocolate mousse for dessert. Lots of wine, of course. The perfect French dinner! The music portion of the evening was delightful. Lots of singing, guitar playing and Geoffrey on his sweet sounding oboe. I kept thinking that this was the perfect evening, and I was enjoying it all so much. BJ is always a wonderful host and makes it all look easy and seem comfortable. Since it was fairly late by the time we were done, and the trams were running further and further apart (or not at all), we decided to walk most of the way home. A beautiful evening and Geoffrey walked with us until it was time to turn into his neighborhood. By that time, the tram had come to the station we were at and Lauren and I jumped on to get home. A wonderful memorable evening.
One item that I loved on BJ’s table: the olive oil spray.
It doesn’t spray in a fine mist, but in just the right amount for putting on vegetables, bread, or anything else, without pouring a big glob or having to use your finger to narrow the flow. What a great idea!
Besides what we usually have at our Farmers’ markets, they also have refrigerated cases for meat and fish. This market is every Tues. and Sat. and where a lot of people buy all of their food.
When we got home, it was Lauren’s turn in the kitchen, and she uses ingredients on hand. A wonderful brunch on the terrace.
Saturday night we met up with Saphia, Mounia’s twin, who was new in town. I met Mounia 2 years ago and have kept in contact with her. She is now in grad school in another part of France. We took Saphia under our wing. We went for dinner at the “Kafelin”: a cat café! You eat/drink and then play with the cats in the café. An interesting concept and I’ve heard of these types of cafes springing up in NYC and LA, maybe?
They have about 6-8 cats, including a completely hairless one (see above): interesting and unique.
After the weekend, Lauren and I jumped on a train to Barcelona, which is only about 3 hours away. We stayed in an air bnb in a good location. It was really cheap ($27/person/night), including our own private bathroom. It worked out well. We had a wonderful 3 days playing tourist. I had been to Barcelona 3 years ago, but it was fun to show it to Lauren. Everything in Spain is fairly inexpensive, so we ate and drank good wine for very low prices. We walked and walked and also used the subway. Everything was safe, even late at night, as there is a definite police presence. That’s another great thing about Europe: everything is so close. It’s so easy to just go to another country, sort of like our going from IL to WI. So many people travel around and have a much more cosmopolitan viewpoint.
Back to Montpellier by mid evening from Spain and with nothing in the house for groceries, Lauren and I go out to eat in Montpellier, just choosing a random little restaurant at 10 PM. We eat outside, late at night, leisurely, surrounded by the old city’s buildings, walls, and streets. So French! The meal is not that expensive and was delicious. I am getting better about using my limited French and making myself understood. It feels like an accomplishment.
Michael and Odile have been at the flat while we were gone and have left a great drying rack for the laundry. Remember: no dryers (too much electricity), so I am thrilled and call it my big “Bad Boy” dryer.
I have trouble originally figuring out how to set it up, but when I do: voila! So much more space to dry. I’m thrilled! (Funny, it’s the little things that please me so much.)
Ken arrives the next day from the States, jet lagged, and tired, but glad to be back in Montpellier. I’m so happy he has arrived so we can once again share this experience together.
Friday night we go to a big InterNations party that BJ is in charge of, as she is the Ambassador of the local chapter. InterNations is a worldwide organization that provides a structure for people from other countries to meet with the locals and each other. It is free to join. It is also where we met a lot of our friends originally. The event was a celebration of InterNations’ 8 year anniversary of being in existence. There were about 80 people from all over the world spilling out into the street: old/young and in-between. I talked to people from Egypt, Germany, Hong Kong, Poland, Israel, the States, Britain, France, etc. etc., sometimes in halting French, sometimes in their halting English, and sometimes just acting things out: the universal language. I of course loved getting the traditional greeting: 3 kisses on alternating cheeks (2 kisses in Paris, 3 down here in Southern France) from all the young men in attendance! It felt like this is so where I want to be at this moment (not just because of the kisses, of course…LOL).
Busy week coming up: tonight, playing Barbu (French card game) at BJ’s, tomorrow, Cooking Club at Geoffrey’s, next night: Trivia game (they call it “the quiz” and questions are in both French and English, at our favorite hang out bar near our old flat). On Wednesday, my brother and his wife come to visit for a few days and we’re off to see my favorite musician, Maugan, and hear his band play.
I feel like I’m getting into the rhythm of my life here more, and really enjoying it, even the second time around. What does that mean going forward? I don’t know, but it is definitely something on my mind.
Bisous, my Blog Buddies. Thanks for visiting and being interested in my experiences here. More in about a week or so……